Dear Clara B,My husband and I have two kids under eight and we both work full-time. He swears his white-collar job is more taxing than mine but I'm a teacher so we all now that's a crock. As a result of his belief he works harder and does the yard work (four times a month, winters off), I should handle the cooking and housework. I spend my Saturdays cleaning, grocery shopping and running errands--with the kids.
My question is how do I make him realize that this is not a fair deal and is causing me to consider a separation?
Tired in Montana